Taking care of a child is by no means a part time job. Even the renowned Christian psychologist knew that very well as he is a father of two children. A child requires full attention, 24/7, day and night. Of course, all children do not possess the same character. While a few are calm and follow orders, most children are strong willed. They deliberately disobey orders and test the limits of their parents. This book is for the second category of children.
The strong willed child is portrayed as one who would play with fire just to see if his parents would drag him away from danger. The strong willed child is also one who would present a challenge to their parents. If these parents do not step up to the challenge and prove that they are worthy of obedience from their strong willed child, they would slowly but surely lose respect.
Relatable examples are mentioned through out the book, including some from the author’s house too. The book further gave detailed information on the strong willed child, how to shape that child, the scourge of sibling rivalry, the strong willed adolescent, effectiveness of parental training among others. Newly wedded couples, new parents, singles who intend to one day have children and parents who have been in the game for a long time all stand to benefit from this book. It helps them know what to expect and how to tackle challenges with a calm resolve.
James Clayton Dobson, Jr. (born April 21, 1936), also known as Jim Dobson, is an American Evangelical Christian author, psychologist, and founder in 1977 of Focus on the Family (FOTF), which he led until 2010. In the 1980s he was ranked as one of the most influential spokesmen for conservative social positions in American public life. Although never an ordained minister, he was called “the nation’s most influential evangelical leader” by The New York Times while Slate portrayed him as a successor to evangelical leaders Jerry Falwell and Pat Robertson.
The author, James Dobson is experienced in the upbringing of children. He has several books to this effect. The author gives relatable stories in his books to ensure that his readers comprehend his instructions. No matter what your marital status may be, check this book out. You will be glad you did.
© Temple Damilola